Month: August 2023

Is Your Non-Monogamy Ethical?

Is Your Non-Monogamy Ethical?

Whether you claim the L, B, T, or any combination from the acronym, the idea of non-monogamy is probably familiar to you. This compound, catch-all concept describes the many relationship dynamics where people consent to…
An Ode to Where I First Found Home: On Black Lesbian Gender & Kinship

An Ode to Where I First Found Home: On Black Lesbian Gender & Kinship

In 1991, years before my birth,  the Michigan Womyn’s Music Festival adopted a “womyn-born-womyn” policy which excluded all pre-op transgender women from the festival. The festival was loosely paradise, a space for predominantly lesbians built…
Figuring It Out at Forty

Figuring It Out at Forty

One of the most colossal mindf**ks of having lived four decades is having less than a handful of romantic experiences to show for it. It begets little wonder your confidence in stepping up to the…